For your task you could disable displaying links Comments and Add comment in Content - JComments plugin and add displaying comments count into your blog template manually.
For example, if we're using ja_purity we need do following:
1. Open file /templates/ja_purity/html/com_content/frontpage/default_item.php
2. Find code:
<a href="<?php echo $this->item->readmore_link; ?>" class="contentpagetitle<?php echo $this->escape($this->item->params->get( 'pageclass_sfx' )); ?>">
<?php echo $this->escape($this->item->title); ?>
</a>
<?php else : ?>
<?php echo $this->escape($this->item->title); ?>
<?php endif; ?>
and replace with:
<?php
$commentsCount = 0;
$commentsBlock = '';
$commentsAPI = JPATH_SITE.DS.'components'.DS.'com_jcomments'.DS.'jcomments.php';
if (is_file($commentsAPI)) {
require_once($commentsAPI);
$config = & JCommentsFactory::getConfig();
$categoryEnabled = JCommentsContentPluginHelper::checkCategory($this->item->catid);
if ($categoryEnabled) {
$commentsCount = JComments::getCommentsCount($this->item->id, 'com_content');
if ($commentsCount) {
$commentsBlock = '<span class="comments-counter"><a href="'.$this->item->readmore_link.'#comments">'.$commentsCount."</a></span>";
} else {
$commentsBlock = '<span class="comments-counter"><a href="'.$this->item->readmore_link.#addcomment">0</a></span>";
}
}
}
?>
<a href="<?php echo $this->item->readmore_link; ?>" class="contentpagetitle<?php echo $this->escape($this->item->params->get( 'pageclass_sfx' )); ?>">
<?php echo $this->escape($this->item->title); ?>
</a>
<?php else : ?>
<?php echo $this->escape($this->item->title); ?>
<?php endif; ?>
<?php echo $commentsBlock; ?>
In this case you'll have block with comments count after article title will be able to style it as you needed. Same modification you'll be needed to make with section and category blog templates.